How to Know if you are an Indigo Child/Adult

Posted on March 11, 2019June 20, 2019 by coach7777

Are you a Hypersensitive person (HSp)? a High Ability adult (HAp)?

Than you may be an Indigo adult as well.

There is often a tight link between HSp, HAp & Indigos persons. Let’s start by understanding first the definitions.

The HSP-s are the Highly Sensitive Persons

According to Dr Elaine Aron’s extended reseach, HSP-s – the Highly Sensitive Persons- represent approx 20% of the global population and have unique and innate, genetical traits that distinguish them from the rest of the population. In my opinion, there are more than 20%, and the numbers are on the rise; it would be valuable to update the research and the statistics figures.

If you are a highly sensitive person yourself, or your child is, these are some of the typical characteristics you may present with:

More easily overwhelmed by sensory stimuli such as bright lights, strong smells, coarse fabrics, or loud noises
More easily irritated when you have a lot to do in a short amount of time
Avoidant of violent movies, conflicts and TV shows
Need to withdraw during busy days to places where you can have privacy and relief from the chaos
Make it a high priority to arrange your life to avoid upsetting / overwhelming situations
Sensitivity to fine scents, tastes, sounds, or works of art
Have a rich and complex inner life
Empaths
Depth of information-processing.
Highly observant of details
Very good memory

If you identify with most points, please note the following :

HPS traits are normal: they are found in over 20% of the population–too many to be a disorder, but not enough to be well understood by the majority of those around you.
HSP have unique genes, so it is innate. Biologists have found it in over 100 species (and probably there are many more) from fruit flies, birds, and fish to dogs, horses, and primates. This trait reflects a certain type of survival strategy, being observant before acting. The brains of (HSPs) actually work a little differently than others’. To learn more about this, see Research.
Sense of awareness is more acute. This is mainly because your brain processes information and reflects on it more deeply. So even if you wear glasses, for example, you see more than others by noticing more.
You are also more easily overwhelmed. If you notice everything, you are naturally going to be overstimulated when things are too intense, complex, chaotic, or new for a long time so you may need immediate quiet time. (*excluding PTSD & previous trauma causes)
This trait is not a new discovery, but it has been misunderstood. Because HSPs prefer to look before entering new situations, they are often called “shy.” But shyness is learned, not innate. In fact, 30% of HSPs are extroverts, although the trait is often mislabeled as introversion. It has also been called inhibitedness, fearfulness, or neuroticism. Some HSPs behave in these ways, but it is not innate to do so and not the basic trait.
Sensitivity is valued differently in different cultures. In cultures where it is not valued, HSPs tend to have low self-esteem as they are told to be “too sensitive” which leads them to feel abnormal.

You are definitely not alone.

The HAP -s ( the High Ability Persons (or Gifted Persons)).

Many HSP-s are HAP. The IQ test (Intelligence Quotient Test) is one way, but not the only way to test High Ability.

Dr Mary-Elaine Jacobson, in her book “The Gifted Adult: a revolutionary guide for liberating everyday genius”, invites you to consider the following statements in order to determine if you are a gifted individual:

I have always had an insatiable curiosity.

I am able to run my mind on multiple tracks at the same time.

I learn rapidly and retain / apply what I learn.

I tend to be very independent.

I tend to be less motivated than others are by rewards, bonuses, and praise.

At times I have asked embarrassing questions or rudely pointed out truths at the wrong time.

My preference for the complex can fool me into underestimating the simple answer.

I like to refine and improve others’ innovations.

I feel comfortable with a wide range of emotions…

In addition, the Gifted Development Center, from the Institute for the Study of Advanced Development, suggests to question the following characteristics :

Are you a good problem solver? Can you concentrate for long periods of time?

Are you perfectionist? Do you persevere with your interests?

Are you an avid reader? Do you have a vivid imagination?

Do you enjoy doing jigsaw puzzles? Often connect seemingly unrelated ideas?

Do you enjoy paradoxes? Do you set high standards for yourself?

Do you have a good long-term memory? Are you deeply compassionate?

Do you have persistent curiosity? Do you have an excellent sense of humor?

Are you a keen observer? Do you have a love of mathematics?

Do you need periods of contemplation? Do you search for meaning in your life?

Are you aware of things that others are not? Are you fascinated by words?

Are you highly sensitive? Do you have strong moral convictions?

Do you often feel out-of-sync with others? Are you perceptive or insightful?

Do you often question rules or authority? Do you have organized collections?

Do you thrive on challenge? Do you have extraordinary abilities and deficits?

Do you learn new things rapidly? Feel overwhelmed by many interests/abilities?

Do you have a great deal of energy? Often take a stand against injustice?

Do you feel driven by your creativity? Love ideas and ardent discussion?

Were you advanced developmentally in childhood? Have unusual ideas or perceptions?

If you have undertaken a IQ test and scored beyond 130 than you may also be considered a gifted person. Nevertheless, note that IQ tests have several traps and cannot be considered a reliable way to determine one’s actual ability. Take results with caution.

Indigos adults & children

We have been hearing about “Indigo Children”. But what are they, really? According to Wendy Chapman, 25 traits are indicative of an indigo adult. Many of these characteristics are found in HSp-s and HAp-s.

***Please note, anyone could have a few of these traits, but Indigo Adults have most if not all of these 25 characteristics***:

Are intelligent, though may not have had top grades.
Are very creative and enjoy making things.
Always need to know WHY, especially why they are being asked to do something.
Had disgust and perhaps loathing for much of the required and repetitious work in school.
Were rebellious in school in that they refused to do homework and rejected authority of teachers, OR seriously wanted to rebel, but didn’t DARE, usually due to parental pressure.
May have experienced early existential depression and feelings of helplessness. These may have ranged from sadness to utter despair. Suicidal feelings while still in high school or younger are not uncommon in the Indigo Adult.
Have difficulty in service-oriented jobs. Indigos resist authority and caste system of employment.
Prefer leadership positions or working alone to team positions.
Have deep empathy for others, yet an intolerance of stupidity.
May be extremely emotionally sensitive including crying at the drop of a hat (no shielding) Or may be the opposite and show no expression of emotion (full shielding).
May have trouble with rage.
Have trouble with systems they consider broken or ineffective, ie. political, educational, medical, and legal.
Alienation from or anger with politics – feeling your voice won’t count and/or that the outcome really doesn’t matter.
Frustration with or rejection of societal norms- 9-5 career, marriage, 2.5 children, house with white picket fence, etc.
Anger at rights being taken away, fear and/or fury at “Big Brother watching you.”
Have a burning desire to do something to change and improve the world. May be stymied what to do. May have trouble identifying their path.
Have psychic or spiritual interest appear fairly young – in or before teen years.
Had few if any Indigo role models. Having had some doesn’t mean you’re not an indigo, though.
Have strong intuition.
Random behavior pattern or mind style – (symptoms of Attention Deficit Disorder). May have trouble focusing on assigned tasks, may jump around in conversations.
Have had psychic experiences, such as premonitions, seeing angels or ghosts, out of body experiences, hearing voices that are not of psychiatric nature.
May be electrically sensitive such as watches not working and street lights going out as you move under them, electrical equipment malfunctioning and lights blowing out.
May have awareness of other dimensions and parallel realities.
Sexually are very expressive and inventive OR may reject sexuality in boredom or with intention of achieving higher spiritual connection. May explore alternative types of sexuality.
Seek meaning to their life and understanding about the world May seek this through religion or spirituality, spiritual groups and books, self-help groups and books.
When they find balance they may become very strong, healthy, happy individuals.

You can thrive once you know yourself and no longer see differences as burdens but as wonderful gifts to serve the World. May you thrive & grow.

Top 10 Things You MUST Know when Making an Animal Communication

Posted on January 30, 2019June 22, 2019 by coach7777

A while ago, I set the following goal: to train and succeed at geo-localization of lost pets. So far, I had only been doing “basic” animal communication by reading an animal and answering specific questions around key issues identified by owners. This rather ambitious goal came from realizing in my animal communications that pets usually do indeed show clearly their location, know the name of their suburbs, can guide you on a map and say: “YES, SPOT ON, OVER HERE, YES!” and can also tell you the direction they took from their house/losing point and the number of Km walked!

Believe it or not, I have specific Km numbers popping up in my mind, landmarks, and geographical directions and when I check the map, I find their info very correct.

But so far, I hadn’t decided to specifically dedicate my time to train in this field. I stared training with the Facebook listing of local lost pets (Pet Alert) and hid the original place of disappearance reported by the owners. I asked the pets where their home was and how far they were from it. I first focused on the updated cases, where pets were reported found, to make sure I get a validation of current place. The first 5 cases it was a rocky reading, but I eventually got it right (3 out of 2) as I learned the techniques that worked best (I keep a log and document what lead me to a successful localization and what didn’t- best way to learn).

On the second session, I took 5 more other cases. These ones were all spot on. No mistake, no doubt, clear answers, and increased confidence from first session’s insights. While connecting with animals pictures, I was having indications such as : North- East of X state. Or, as i was sweeping my hand on the map, i was having a strong energy pull towards a certain region.

I was blown away. It’s overwhelming when you get things right! Especially on lost pets and all readings in a row just right, Wow! It took me a couple of weeks to take it all in and consider the huge implication of such success.

But we need to stay firmly grounded. Success is relative in Psychic Reading or Animal Communication field (Ac). A lot does not depend on us, we are channels of information not generators.

We need to stay down to Earth and have a lot more practice, because even though some are fast learners, animals communicate differently or unwillingly or not at all many times, so each time we are facing a unique challenge.

On session three, things went down the hill. I was getting everything wrong (not even close!), I was reading badly the animal (based on owners descriptions), and I was finding it harder and harder just to get about anything right! Yet, I was pushing through refusing the outcomes, with frustration and determination, despite my body getting really tired and slowly sick (from untreated flu and other added conditions). I disregarded all this and reached the drama queen point: “Omg, why? I don’t get it? Did I lose my skills, why, what did I do??! Am I not meant to be doing this? Am I being punished for something ?” *wailing almost like a baby*

I had no idea why this was happening to me. But after pulling back and analysing it like a grown up adult, I finally understood it.

All 10 points that I will mention in this article, applied.

These are the top 10 reasons why you are having a bad reading or poor results at a Psychic Reading or a classical animal communication session.

1. Fatigue

Fatigue is a huge factor in determining results. Your body is the main instrument. If its rusty, low in energy or blocked with personal, emotional, physical and spiritual issues (or doubts) it won’t work at all in your favour. I usually my connections early in the morning, first thing, when I’m completely fresh and full of energy.

2. Poor physical awareness

Even if you are slightly unwell, or have flu left over symptoms for example, the readings will be negatively affected. I was physically weak and I was dismissing it. I was pushing harder through and the more I did it the less I was successful.

3. You fall asleep (sudden loss of energy and not primarily because of fatigue)

Some readings will get you really tired. You may be full of energy when you start a connection but soon after that you feel like you’ve been knocked out with a bat on the head. I have not yet figured why exactly this happens, but it happens for some cases that you will find yourself completely drained after a minute or so, and literally need a pillow close immediately to crush on. It feels like you’re under a spell. A hypothesis for this may be that the amount of energy ‘taken’ by some case surpass our currently energy capacity, because some cases are simply heavy duty or “high demand energy”. They need a lot of energy to connect, to engage or present with heavy material that is not ready for our body to receive. Therefore, the traffic become congested and immobilized, and as a result so body shuts down and goes into sleep mode. A defense mechanism you will experiment when you deal with ‘full on’ stuff.

4. Owners / Readees’ Denial

It is not unusual to receive invalidation from animal owners or persons who are not ready or open to hear the truth. Some character traits will be denied, some statement automatically rejected without looking further or deeper nor trying making sense of what you come up with. Don’t get discouraged. If you had in the past positive validation, accept that not everyone is open to a new/objective perspective of things. After all, they don’t want their subjective reality destroyed and would reject anything not fitting in their projections and reading expectations. (I have met quite a few like this myself, so relax. Here we need to use true psychology.)

5. Seek prior validation (check in you are connecting with the right person)

This may be an obvious one for you, but it was not for me for a while. It didn’t cross my mind to have 2 hidden answers, to 2 questions for example, readily available for checking you are communicating with the right person/animal/entity. Always thrive to start with a prior validation test to gain not only credibility but also self-confidence for further connections.

6. Lack of patience

“Quick, come on! I don’t have all day!” sounds familiar? it does to me! in a hectic modern lifestyle, telepathic communication can be a tough task to fit in, in our tight schedule for most of us anyway! But patience is crucial. You don’t control fine timing, openness and especially, you don’t boss anyone around. Particularly animals. There is a bond to build and they are fuss about that. Of course, would you respond to a stranger who came to interrogate you out of nowhere? “Who are YOU?!” I get this question a lot when i initiate a connection with an animal. And coming rather like a blunt bullet! And I tell them openly my whole story… I found that i can’t go very far if first I haven’t established an excellent rapport.

7. Impure intention & Ego interference

A successful connection is only possible if you are consciously working in the best interests of the animal-client and all parties involved. For this, a pure heart and intention are required. Always ask yourself : “Whose interests am I working for?”, ‘Am I entitled to know these things”, “Am I having a respectful approach, with high integrity and ethics in my work right now?”. You would be surprised how easily and unconsciously the Ego interferes with this kind of work and how fast you could find yourself carrying underlying motives that are not fully aligned with the Highest Good and your heart’s pure intention. Keep the Ego in check.

8. You are unconsciously blocking some unwanted information

For a long time I have been afraid of being a clairsentient. I was fearing feeling the pain of others, seeing their trauma, being in their body, heart and soul. Unconsciously, and as a result, I have blocked the clairsentient channel and rarely have information via this way. I have developed essentially the claircognizant, clairaudient and clairvoyant channel. So if I ever come across some type of information that would cause me distress, I would block it instantly without being consciously aware. Seemingly, there must have been some kind of agreement between me and my higher-self that anything that I’m not ready for I shall not intercept. So ask yourself, is there something you are fearing to receive? What are your weakness or touchy points? What are you concerned about before developing your psychic skills? Have you ever had a bad experience and you’re wanting to avoid similar scenarios and what are they. Be clear about it to know your limitations and understand why you cant access certain things, at certain times; its a useful process to go through.

9. You’re not meant to know

Yes. Often times, we are not meant to know because this is for your and others highest good. The timing may be bad too so this needs to be respected and approached with a good dose of humility and realism. Don’t force a connection, don’t get stubborn about a question, respect what you are getting and come back at another time. If after three different times you get no response, or little info, move on. Leave it and accept you are not meant to open that box.

10. They don’t like you, as simple as that!

This applies particularly for animals. Some beings you are connecting to telepathically, simply don’t like you. You and/or anybody else! It’s how it is. Don’t take it personally, take it with humour. I spoke once to a cat that couldn’t stand me. She talked to me with such arrogance and bitchiness that I forgot my questions! She was giving lots of “compliments” while telling me to eff off elsewhere. I was taken off guards and very surprised to have such attitude but I bowed at her majesty, pulled away and let her be the Queen.

In conclusion, psychic abilities and performance commonly oscillate and don’t get necessarily easier with time and practice. Circumstances and above factors affect significantly the outcome and the accuracy of the message. However, as we become more aware of these variables, we also get to control them better and become less doubtful and affected by failure. I found that the best ingredients for optimal learning and subsequent positive readings are keeping a journal with key notes, remarks and self-reflections and remaining self-aware (body, mind, heart and spirit) at all times.

Why There are No Coincidences & How to Trust the Flow of Life

Posted on January 24, 2019July 1, 2019 by coach7777

There are no coincidences, there are only synchronicities, stemming from the divine law of unity, interconnectedness and unconscious telepathic communication with all that is.

Firstly, I will discuss the basics of Synchronicity principles and secondly, how this mysterious invisible powerful flow works.

Synchronicity

What is synchronicity?

Synchronicity is the unconscious awareness of life. It’s a set of hidden messages that there are in everything that happens to you. On the moment you will not see them and often times, you will resist them strongly. These messages, when listened to, they are often life changing messages. They are important ‘coincidences’ that cannot be explained by luck or chance. They just break all the laws of probability.

There is no luck or chance there is only an invisible web of interconnectedness and a constant unconscious communication between thoughts (energy). Synchronicity is the law of oneness and the wen of our unconsciousness or consciousnesses.

What you see, you create. What you think, you attract. What you seek, is seeking you.

Synchronicity is a mirror, it reflects what you send out there. Just like thoughts create your reality. Th0ughts create emotions, emotions create circumstances, which transforms the present moment under the influence of your emotional frequency into your reality.

Synchronicity taps into the very basics laws of attraction.

Law of attraction: you attract what you believe and feel.

The Law of Attraction is one of the better known universal laws. The theory behind the Law of Attraction is that we create our own realities. Not only do we attract things we want, we also attract things we don’t want. We attract the relationships in our lives, the money in our bank accounts, the events and circumstances, through our thoughts and feelings. The Universe will synch with your thoughts and manifest your inner reality.

The release of the movie The Secret in 2006, based on Rhonda Byrne’s book with the same name, created a media blitz however, the theory behind its teachings has been around for ages.

The creative process as portrayed in the extended version of the movie The Secret, involves three steps to attracting all your desires (ask, believe, receive) but I defend 5 steps in a more accurate, realistic and complete view as follows:

Ask – You must know what you want. I mean, really know what you want. The universe can’t deliver without first knowing what it is that you want manifested into your life.
Believe – Truly believe it will be granted to you. However, the slightest doubt will pollute the magnet-energy and sabotage the outcome.
Act – You must take action towards your desired outcome. You must start open doors and energetically act as if its already there; be in the state of mind as you act upon your wishes.
Receive – When opportunity comes your way you must not hesitate, grab it gracefully : it’s yours. Open your hands and heart to receiving it fully, shamelessly.
Pay it forward – Because nothing belongs nor should belong to us permanently, we must pay it forward. we cannot only get and not give back. Everything is flowing energy and any withholding will create energetic blocks (mental, emotional, spiritual and physical). Let it come, go and flow through you, take what you need, and pass it forward!

How to tune in

Let go of control: you control nothing. Go with the flow and you will get quicker “Home”. Like a river who takes you faster where you need to go, there is no point resisting it! by following the flow you follow your Destiny. You can’t resist it nor fight it; sooner or later you be taken there. Save time. Choose sooner!
Pay attention. You’re constantly solicited! Things, messages and spirits are drawn to you, work with them, not against or in dismissal of them. We are so caught up into our daily buzz and mental noise, that we don’t even see the ‘road signals’ or the hear the horns anymore.
Find out the higher plan by trusting the journey. You’re in higher plan and if you can’t see the larger purpose it doesn’t mean there is none for you! TRUST IT!
Read, learn from others experiences, take note of yours constantly. Keep track of what’s happened and take time to process it at the end of each day. You can then connect the dots.
Use the past for evidence and learning processes. Remember : when things turned out unexpectedly ? what lessons were you taught and what turned out very useful, insightful and enriching despite your resistance or grievance over those events at that time?
Stop believing in coincidences. Your life is no coincidence in a first place, you are here because the Universe desired you to be here and you consented to it. Find out why you’re here by giving, trust, time and patience to your journey. More likely, you already know what your purpose is but you’re not fully accepting it.

Psychic skills and synchronicity

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Because of the infinite Universal Web, linking all of us, to everyone and everything, we can access the past , the present and the future of anyone.

The experiences of us all are written in the universal database an we can retrieve it just like your computer retrieves your browser history. Thoughts ARE energy. And everything is vibrating flowing energy. Because thoughts are energy, it can never disappear. according to the laws of physics, nothing disappears. Energy and matter cannot be created nor destroyed and as our thoughts are pure energy, they cannot be destroyed nor disappear permanently.

In reality, everything is Energy and everyone’s and everything’s energy never die.

When connecting mentally, with focus, inner calmness an intention to someone who’s not in your space and time, you access his/her database via your conscious mental wiring. You simply open the draw and read the info there, in their energetic field. This no mysticism, its physics.

All that psychics do, is connecting, mediating and believing in what they are doing. Because believing is a secret ingredient to unlock this inner power dormant in all of us. The slightest doubt sabotages the intention, blocks the energy flow and short circuits your (electrical) power.

That’s the differences between psychics and skeptics: Psychics live with a 6ht sense, faith and awareness, skeptics live confined by their mind limits, their “rational” (biased) analysis and their 5 human senses.

In conclusion, practice the habit of living with a YES to anything that the present moment brings you and THANK YOU to all that the past has offered you. Synchronicity is what happens to you when you let go of control, pay attention and leave the reception button on with the firm believe that you are the manifestor of your life and the Universe is working in your favor.

The most important lesson we have to learn in this physical plane is to trust the flow of life faithfully and accept circumstances and outcomes as they come, for there is a higher and brighter propose for us, unseen and greatly resisted on the moment, a much better outcome and a lesson to learn indispensable to our progress and evolution.

May you Fully Trust it.